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These days as we transgender women and transgender men are under unpresented attacks from unresponsive bigoted politicians across the country, our future often seems dim. With all which is going on, what everyone against us doesn’t realize is, we as individuals and as a community have been through this all before. An example would be how many of us grew up with no family support when we thought of attempting to express our authentic gender selves. We were “born” into our gender worlds with extreme problems on how to survive. As an example, I was born into a very male dominated family where any femininity on my part would have been dealt with drastically. I learned the hard way how to exist with no outlet to my gender needs.
Equally as important was the fact I had little to no information from the world concerning others who may have felt the same way as I did. I didn’t know how many ancient societies actually held transgender individuals in high esteem. Some to the point of worshiping them. In todays’ western societies difference is bad and often gender is regarded as one of the most different personal differences a person can face. But face it we do and I use the “tunnel” example to explain why. Once we are able to finally take the steps to open our gender closets and explore, we are faced with looking down a long tunnel with a small light at the end. It takes all of us differing amounts of time…
