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Today is the Transgender Day of Remembrance when we pause to remember all of the transgender women and trans men who have tragically lost their lives this year. Just trying to live as their authentic selves. In addition to the thirty two deaths reported in 2022, the news of the mass shooting in Colorado Springs broke Sunday morning as CNN was reporting a shooting at a LGBTQ nightclub which left five people dead and at least eighteen injured which will surely increase the total. Plus the total is most likely higher because of the transgender deaths which go unreported.
Just saying this is sad and tragic is not enough of course. Too many of the deaths come from the ranks of transgender women of color and some of them were engaged in the sex trade. Mainly because of family problems when they came out and couldn’t find employment because of discrimination. Most had two strikes against them before they ever had a chance to live.
The lessons to be learned from the Transgender Day of Remembrance are few and impactful. Without living in fear due to potential violence, there are plenty of common sense rules you can follow to help insure your safety. First of all you have to remember when you leave the boys club to play fulltime with the girls you immediately lose a certain amount (or all) of your male privilege. The most important privilege you lose is access to personal safety…
