Where is She?

For some reason, I read someone else’s post about coming out to a spouse or loved one concerning being transgender, or even a cross dresser. In my world, being accepted as a cross dresser was much easier than being accepted as transgender.

In fact, the only cis woman of significance in my life who tried to parlay my cross dressing into anything remotely against me was my finance way back in my college days. Instead of keeping my gender desires in the closet, I couldn’t take it any longer and came out to her. After intense discussions she finally agreed to go with me to a motel room and help me with my…



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JJ Hart

Transgender veteran author and blogger. I write in the hope of helping others with similar gender dysphoria