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First of all, maybe a little definition to the serendipity word would help this post.
From an on line dictionary I read from, it defined the word as “The occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way. “ Today I was able to put my gender dysphoria aside and experience gender serendipity. The chance occasion came when I went with my wife Liz to her Doctor’s appointment. For the occasion I chose one of my newer summer lightweight tank tops. It is tie died with a big peace sign and the slogan , every little thing gonna be alright. For once we took a picture. Completing the casual outfit was a pair of jeans and my new tennis shoes. Nothing too fancy for the Doc’s and the heat.
The fun part came when we went into the office and a man held the door open for us. He was wearing a nice The Ohio State University polo shirt so Liz said “Go Buckeyes!” He responded with “O.H” and I said “I.O.” From there on we were off to a good morning.
The best part to me was being totally ignored by all the waiting people in the office. It didn’t matter, I was essentially invisible. Not transgender for a change. Just me and it felt good. Kids and all ignored me. It felt so good to put my gender dysphoria behind me and just live my life.
While I am on the subject of current events, in yesterday’s Veterans Administration…
