First, we have to describe as women’s only spaces as primarily rest rooms but there is so much more to consider. For example, girl’s nights out, trips to beauty salons or any other spaces dominated by cis-women.
To consider being in women’s only spaces, we also need to look at the impact of impostor syndrome. Or, when you think you have arrived at your destination, only to think you are an impostor and don’t belong there at all. Often the syndrome stops you from enjoying your dream of being out with and being accepted by a group of women.
Now, lets start with the most problematic space at all, the women’s rest room. Depending on where you live, just using the women’s room for it’s intended use is becoming against the law. Even if it is not, just becoming adjusted to the new etiquette of using a completely new rest room can be an issue. Even though many of us have used the women’s room for years, there are still basics to remember. First and foremost don’t forget to look any other women you may encounter in the eye, smile and speak. It’s OK to do this, although it is completely opposite to do in the men’s room. Other “musts” include always remembering to never put your purse on the floor, and always be careful to look before you sit down for stray moisture left behind by a previous occupant.
