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Over a space in time, I have written about the girl’s nights out I was fortunate to be invited to. During each one, I learned tons of information about how cis-women interact by themselves when there are no men in the group.
Last night it occurred to me I had forgotten perhaps the most important night out with women which I had ever experienced. My excuse is, it happened such a long time ago. Just after I came out to my daughter who immediately began to explore ways to get me more situated as a transgender woman. This time, she came up with the idea I should go along with her and her girl friends to a glitzy drag show in Dayton, Ohio.
The drag show was actually put on by a very entertaining group of female impersonators called the “Rubi Girls”. They are still together to this day and have raised well over a million dollars over the years for AID’S research. They have been performing since the 1980’s and I had heard about their legendary shows but had not ever made it to one…until my daughter stepped in.
It turned out the drag troupe had closer ties to my daughter’s family than I had ever imagined. So close, my oldest grandson had one of the Rubi’s as a fourth grade teacher where he went to school. Thanks to a remarkable amount of diversity back in those days, the teacher was a fully out gay man being allowed to teach. Further more, after I…
