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This morning I read a post by a transgender man I follow on another writing format.
The number one fact I took away from his post was how accepting his grandparent was when he was growing up. In fact, the grandparent took him to get his hair cut and purchased him clothes to match his authentic gender. After I read the post I responded by saying how good it must have been to have a supporting person in their life.
Sadly, I was never able to take advantage of having anyone even knowing about or having any inkling about my gender issues. I knew without any shadow of a doubt, I was expected to be a boy in all aspects of my life. My parents were of the “Greatest Generation” which was the WWII and Great Depression generation. As a child growing up in the 50’s, I was expected to fit neatly into a square male hole and survive the best I could. in a world I did not embrace.
The entire experience of being totally alone in the world as a boy who wanted to be a girl led me quickly to extreme cases of gender dysphoria. It wasn’t until many years later when I learned of Virginia Prince and her “Transvestia” publication did I discover there actually other transvestites as they called themselves back then. Thinking back, I am fairly sure the publication was mailed out every two months and I couldn’t wait until the next one arrived. Thanks to “Transvestia”, I was able to learn…
