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Is losing a privilege of being transgender? Without a doubt yes. Right now I am reading a book by “Jan and Dianne DeLap” called Living and Loving a Transgender Life Together. Briefly, Dianne is approximately the same age I am (74) and has shared many of the same experiences. Including losses.
Included in her experiences was losing her wife of many years who had transitioned with her and all the trials and tribulations of changing careers to earn a living. In other words, she writes about how much she had to lose to finally live a life as a transgender woman she always wanted. If you would like more information on Dianne’s book contact me at Cyrstih@yahoo.com. Or her book is available on Amazon.
Very definitely, it didn’t take reading Dianne’s book for me to realize when you are transgender you have to realize you may lose some or all of the major facets of your life. Such as losing family, spouses, employment and even housing. You regulars know I write about all the possible losses you may experience from changing your gender often. I use the losses as a way of describing what we do in our lives is in no way a choice. We needed to complete a transition to live.
As we become more and more involved in a gender transition as a transgender woman, we find out quickly we are kicked out of the “boys club” as we lose our male privileges. It’s no secret just one…
