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On Saturday mornings Liz and I normally watch the CBS morning news show. If you are not familiar, CBS wraps up the show with a musical act. This morning, I noticed the musician refer to her music as a calling of sorts.
Of course very quickly my mind wondered to being transgender. When was I called to the transgender side of humanity.
My Gender was Calling
I wasn’t Listening.
Photo Courtesy Jessie
Hart
Was it when I first heard the term in the late 1970’s or early 80’s, as I vaguely remember. Looking back I do know the terminology resonated with me. Maybe now I had found a label which described my gender dysphoria. I was discovering sadly once again I didn’t fit once I began to explore the transvestite mixers I was beginning to attend. In other words, I knew I really didn’t fit in with most of the cross dressers in the room and I wasn’t ready to think of myself as a full fledged transsexual, as they were known in those days. These were the individuals who were prepared to change everything in their life to change their gender. It was recommended then people who went through a sex change undergo the surgery, then move away and start a completely new life. I was frustrated. I thought I was making huge strides towards understanding my
gender issues but the end result was once again I was the round peg being pounded into a square hole. Ultimately, being transgender solved my label problem.
