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Put in it’s simplest terms, being female could be defined as the binary gender who can birth other humans and can have monthly periods. A statement many TERF’S or certain politicians would like us all to believe. As we all know, gender is much more complicated than all of that. Even the poor misunderstood drag queens have been pulled into the battle. They never wanted to be women to start with, just look like one. Politicians don’t want to understand any of that.
Now, for the moment, let’s consider the old saying “Girls are sugar and spice and everything nice.” I am fairly sure those of you who have ever interacted closely with women as a transgender woman or as a man, know a woman or two (or many more) who do not fit the old stereotype. I have seen many cis women who are so much tougher on so many levels. I have also seen many women who are able to cover up their toughness by trying a passive aggressive approach instead. It took many years for me to develop eyes in the back of my head to look for hidden claw marks from women who didn’t like me for whatever reason.
Along the way, I have seen many transgender women (novice or not) who project extreme femininity. I remember distinctly one attendee to the monthly cross dressing/trans parties I went to at an acquaintance’s beautiful house in Columbus, Ohio. The only time I saw this person was when she quickly changed into…
