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Recently I posted two comments from readers. One of which mentioned her concerns with responding to and going to a women’s only space. The reader, Ann, said she did not go for several relevant reasons including she didn’t want to turn the place into a space where the other women felt there was an “interloper” there which made normal feminine discourse impossible. I paraphrased Ann. If you want to refer to her entire comment, go back one day to the “Trans-Sisterhood” post. If you haven’t read it, it is a well thought out statement of if you should or should not attend. In response, Lisa P added this comment:
“ May I comment to Ann? I asked if I could join a women’s book club and was readily accepted. I can assure Ann that if she is being asked, she will be welcomed. Moreover, we talk about issues specific to women all the time, and there is no hesitancy or embarrassment shown by them. They know I am part of their “tribe” and I am safe. I do appreciate Ann’s concern and thoughtfulness (we should all emulate her). If possible I ask first before entering women’s safe spaces. But, I have not been rejected and I am more whole when I am part of the sisterhood of women. Lisa P.”
As I said yesterday, when I first was invited to “girls’ nights out” as well as other women only spaces I felt remarkably welcome. In many instances I felt as if the other women were welcoming into their…
