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As I continued along my gender path to living as a fulltime transgender woman, I arrived at several crossroads.
The first of which was finally deciding I was transgender at all. For years I considered myself nothing more than a very serious cross dresser. Perhaps the biggest positive aspect of staying a cross dresser was my wife knew of my gender pastime before we were married. She even grudgingly bought me gifts such as woman’s clothes. In fact, we had a separate gift exchange at Christmas every year especially for my feminine self.
On the other hand, my wife was totally against any idea of me being trans, saying she didn’t want to live with another woman. I had no comeback for that argument since she did marry my male self. Still it did not stop me from exploring ever further the feminine world I thought I wanted to live in. As I did my explorations, the process felt so natural I just had to keep going. At the crossroads I decided I was indeed transgender and I was pursuing a lifestyle not just participating in a hobby. From the point forward my life changed and I had many new decisions to make.
Decisions such as how would I even structure a totally new life in a woman’s world. Along the way, I learned the possibility of living as a trans woman meant so much more than just doing my best to present well in the world and blend in with the public. What would I do about the…
