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I mentioned this comment briefly in yesterday’s post. Recently, in my newest Veteran’s Administration LGBTQA+ group session. The moderator brought up a new concept, instead of coming out, in reality we transgender folk are inviting others in.
This is a fairly radical idea when you take into consideration all the anti-transgender legislation which has been unleashed upon us by a certain political party not called the Democrats. Even still. the entire idea has a positive ring to it. Imagine having the comfort level (and/or confidence) to invite friends and family in to share your deepest darkest secret. The inner secret you have carried around your entire life. I know when I came out to others for the first time, I was in some sort of a gender free fall. In essence I had been stripped of all my old male reactions to any adversity. I needed to learned quickly the different gender path I would need to take to survive.
Truth be known, cis-women have known the alternate path for years. Often, in their own way, the women said to others come on in and then they needed to sort out the fall out from there. It doesn’t really matter because in everyone’s life, we have to sadly face it’s ups and downs. Relationships of course are included. My coming out example was very unpleasant in it’s own way. It happened way back when I talked my first fiancé into dressing me head to toe as a woman. Then proceeded to…
