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Back in what I call my formative years, I grew used to trying to outrun my problems. Between college and my military service I literally was moved or decided to move on my own an average of every year and a half. It all started when I left home for college for a year and a half. Amazingly, during this time my gender dysphoria disappeared and suddenly I was free to live a somewhat normal gender life. I say normal because during this time I had several dates with girls from the East Coast who were much more sophisticated sexually than anything I had seen in my shy Midwestern upbringing. In fact, my Mom unknowingly set me up with my first sexual experience with one of her older (not a minor) students where she taught high school. I think she was nineteen and I was eighteen, so I had a lot to learn.
The school I went away to was one a group of Midwestern Ivy League schools for students on the East Coast who couldn’t make it into the top notch schools or universities in their back yards. What happened was I ended up partying with my friends mainly from Philadelphia and Baltimore and not studying enough to maintain grades to not get drafted into the Vietnam War. After a year and a half Ipicked up and moved back home to attend a much more academically forgiving nearby university where I could thrive. Which I did by even making the Dean’s List several times before I graduated. More importantly to me back…
