7 hours agoMember-onlyA Deeper Look at HormonesSeveral days ago I wrote a post called “Comments” which ultimately came from a post which dealt with hormone replacement therapy. The post turned out to be one of the most commented posts I have written in a while. Mainly because to some HRT is the main gateway when you…Hormones3 min read
1 day agoMember-onlyA Break in the WeatherThe hot and steamy non airconditioned weather I have faced for most of the summer has finally given way to lesser humidity and lower temperatures. Oddly enough the climate change has helped to give me a break from my gender dysphoria, without an influx of gender euphoria. I rarely have…Veterans3 min read
2 days agoMember-onlyComments!Yesterday I wrote a post asking the question “What is a Transgender Woman.” Today I received this wonderful response through my Medium writers format from Jas Martinez: “ Gender identity of a female? Not all females have a gender identity of a female. There has to be, there probably will…Self Love3 min read
3 days agoMember-onlyWhat is a Transgender Woman?Talk about a question which goes right to the basics, this is it. Before I get started, here is a look at a definition of a transgender woman from Web MD: “A transgender woman was labeled as male at birth but has the gender identity of a female. A transgender…Transgender2 min read
5 days agoMember-onlyBack to BasicsMany times as you may have noticed I go way back to what I consider were my initial forays into cross dressing in girls clothes. The method to my madness is I feel those initial feelings were what shaped my future as a transgender woman. I find it is interesting…Fashion3 min read
6 days agoMember-onlyHello Ms. HartImagine my surprise when the phone rang and a pleasant voice from the Veterans Administration said “Good Morning is this Ms. Hart? “ It was a surprise to me she referred to me with the proper pronoun because normally I need to correct them every call when they ask for…Veterans3 min read
Aug 9Member-onlyIn a MazeIn many ways, this post is an extension of a recent post I wrote on living a complex transgender life. Looking back as well as forward in my life, I still think many times I am similar to a rodent in a maze. Just think of all the mini transitions…LGBTQ3 min read
Aug 8Member-onlyA Complex LifeNo matter how you live it, a human life will undoubtedly turn out to be a complex affair. Family and friends come along to complicate our best laid plans. Just when you think you have it all figured out, something comes along to change everything. If we ever figure a…Sexuality3 min read
Aug 6Member-onlyOn the Gender PlaygroundAlong the way, following the path to change one’s gender presents many challenges. In fact, many times the process can be compared to life on a playground. Especially when we are in the midst of deciding which binary gender we will…Transgender2 min read
Aug 5Member-onlyIs It all in The Voice?As I transitioned I envied the deep sultry feminine tones of movie star Jacqueline Bisset . In my mind she represented the ultimate in a voice someday I may be able to come close to. Naturally I never did but a girl can dream…right? As the years rolled by and…Voice3 min read
