PinnedMember-onlyTrans Girl in a Gay BarIt wasn’t too long following my coming out of my gender closet when I began to try to go to gay venues to express my authentic self in a relatively safe space. There were several I began to frequent quite a bit. Then there were others I was made to…Lesbian4 min readLesbian4 min read
PinnedMember-onlyIt’s a Transgender MarathonPerhaps you have heard the saying “It’s a marathon, not a race.” The saying really applies to transgender women and trans men. Recently on social media I have seen several posts from novice cross dressers or transgender women or more or less put on a dress and began to proclaim…Marathon3 min readMarathon3 min read
2 days agoMember-onlyMaybe it is All About YouPaula from “Paula’s Place” Blog sent in this response on my recent post about gender transitions being selfish: Photo Courtesy Paula Godwin “ I am reminded of an occasion when my wife said to me “Not everything is about gender” I feel for very similar reasons. My whole world had…Mental Health3 min readMental Health3 min read
3 days agoMember-onlyClass Reunion?Have you ever attended a class reunion as your authentic self? Facing the daunting experience of facing your former school peers who knew you in the past. I admit for several reasons I never have. I do believe Stana of the Femulate blog has attended one of her reunions but…Lifestyle3 min readLifestyle3 min read
4 days agoMember-onlyIt Was not All About MeDuring my often one sided obsessive goal to be a better transgender woman, my second wife often told me it all wasn’t about me. The truth be known, it was all about me. At the time my one sided gender obsession only included her when I wanted to go out…Self Awareness3 min readSelf Awareness3 min read
5 days agoMember-onlyWhat I WearAs I look back on my archived blog posts from years ago, I see many which zeroed in what I was wearing at the time or when I went out into a brave new feminine world. My, how times have changed. Liz and I at Christmas Dinner My thoughts…Mental Health3 min readMental Health3 min read
6 days agoMember-onlyDealing with Transgender PassionMost certainly living out a dream to change a gender requires a lot of passion. As a matter of fact, a life time of passion. Photo Courtesy Jessie Hart Early in life I was guilty of living in the mirror and pretending I was a pretty girl but at…Gender3 min readGender3 min read
Dec 1Member-onlyOnly a FoolOnly a fool knows everything is a quote I recently heard. Of course when I heard it I made a mental note to try to remember it and use it for a blog post. …Psychology3 min readPsychology3 min read
Nov 30Member-onlyHow Long Have I KnownNot long ago my daughter asked me indirectly how long was it since I knew I was transgender. Then she corrected herself by saying I probably had always known. To refresh your memory, my daughter has always been a staunch ally of the LGBTQ community and has a transgender child…Gender Roles3 min readGender Roles3 min read
Nov 29Member-onlyWhy Do I WriteAs I took on the challenges years ago of writing a daily transgender non fiction based blog, many questions came about. During the years, often who my audience was began to change. Initially I thought my readers would be primarily transitioning gender women and men who may be able to…Writing3 min readWriting3 min read
