12 hours agoA Rare Gender OccurrenceFor me, gender euphoria is a very rare happening. Of course it is the opposite of the gender dysphoria I have lived with most if not all of my life. Just a guess but I think I can trace the beginnings of my gender issues to the days when as…Gender Roles2 min read
1 day agoPride and PoliticsWith all the negative publicity and legislation regarding all transgender women and men, it may be no better time for all the Pride celebrations to take place. Several days ago, I wrote a post on the various Pride events around me and received a couple well thought out comments in…Transgender3 min read
3 days agoLGBTQ Pride BeckonsLGBTQ Pride Month is June. Which according to my precise calculations is coming up in a couple of weeks. Yesterday, the transgender — cross dresser local support group I am part of has started to search for help with “manning” tables at several different local Prides. Even I am amazed…LGBTQ3 min read
4 days agoQuiet TimeThis Monday morning Liz is off and since I am retired we took advantage of the cooler morning temperatures to take our walk. It was non eventful as always as we normally have to clean up after our dog who somehow needs to complete his morning “constitutional” in the neighbor’s…Self Improvement2 min read
5 days agoLiving a Transgender GoalSimilar to other human beings, we transgender folk follow a long path to hopefully discovering our true selves. Even though we face a difficult and often cruel journey to arrive where we are heading, others are not immune from going through similar yet different struggles. It is my belief that…Life Lessons3 min read
6 days agoNot a ChoiceThis morning I was watching the news and came across a story about the average everyday person and choice. What the reporter didn’t really ever say was for most things in life, we don’t really have a choice. If we like it or not, choices are increasingly being made for…LGBTQ3 min read
May 13Sing Like a BirdIt has been awhile it seems since I have written on any of my past experiences which directly led to my coming out of my closet and into the world as a transgender woman. Several happened in small lesbian bars which seem to be disappearing these days. One of the…Lesbian3 min read
May 12A Transgender OdysseyMy life as a transgender woman has certainly produced it’s share of peaks and valleys. As I look back on it, I remember so many times I seemingly hit a wall with my male to female gender transition. Along the way I became very good at either climbing the wall…Gender Roles3 min read
May 11Normal? Archive PostToday was therapy day so I have limited opportunities to post. So I decided to go back to the Fall of 2020 for this post: As transgender women and/or crossdressers, we spend much of our lives wondering how we ended up being a person who has such non normal urges…Gender Identity2 min read
May 9The Dreaded “M” WordAll was going relatively well during my visit to the local vampires to have my blood labs checked. When my name was called, no gender pronoun was attached to it. Such as the dreaded “Mister” word. The nurse simply came through the door and screamed my last name. In no…Transgender2 min read
